YES. Books WILL Be Judged By Their Covers

Look, I understand there are many ways to take this argument.  You all can debate me down all you want on this one.  But I said with this blog I will deliver a more personal side of myself- so that means my ideologies, my truest emotions, my (mis)conceptions, and all of that.  So here's my take on dress-

LOOK HOW YOU WANT TO BE TREATED.

It's that simple.  And I understand creativity and self-expression on multiple levels, I'm a multifaceted artist.  But if I go in the bank and my teller has on a black hoodie and jeans, I'm getting in contact with Voight from Chicago P.D., pronto.

You get where I'm going with this right?  If a man wants to be seen as about his money and professionalism simultaneously, he's going to don a power suit.  I'm just saying ladies, if your rocking a "dress" (for lack of better words) that shows your outer labia if you trip on that crack in the sidewalk, how is a man (we are distinctively visual creatures) supposed to distinguish between you and a female who dresses in that same manner "professionally"???

{Now before I go on with my tangent, let me state this- there are exceptions.  Some say that if my brothers pull their pants up from sagging then we will be treated better (i.e., racial violence will decline and such).  However let's take it back to when you only wore jeans if you were a carpenter- Black Men wore suits and we were still targeted!}

But I've never sagged, I personally think it's in poor taste, so let me continue on my rant!

In the words of the prophetic Joe Budden, "Maybe I'm buggin' out; Maybe I'm on a spaceship."  But the only reason I don't treat a 3/4 naked female like a THOT when I address her is because, well... I just don't wanna get hoodrat slapped.  Oh yeah, and also I don't call a chick out of her name unless she warrants it- even though she's already disrespecting herself.

All I'm saying is, ladies- you don't have to show it all just to get a man's attention.  At the end of the day, it's our objective to get you out of your clothes... So give us something to put some effort into taking off!

(When I judge a "Barely There" Cover, I'll assume the Book Lacks Substance)- So she won't receive the Gentleman's Treatment of my previous post.  Maaaaaaaaybe this is why I'm single!

Hate Me/Debate Me If You Want
BUUUUUUTTTTT....
Classiness is STILL the Highest Form of Sexiness.

 

I LIKE TO DRESS FOR #SUCCESS

When The Cards Are All In

Hey there everyone, it has been nearly 3 years since I made my last post in kenncole.BlogSpot.com.  This has been for various reasons.  I could have started back up on there, yet I'm feeling a different air now.


So, I'll start with something of a different air- insight into my emotions.  Yes, I've done this times before, but only with my song lyrics...  I've had some experiences over the past few years romantically, and not to dive too deep at all- I haven't obtained what my soul desires.



Anyway, I woke up to a text message from one of my homegirls (fully platonic) asking me for a bit of romance advice.  She thought a guy she was involved with was going to "friend zone" her and after a little "consultation," if you will, we got to the nitty gritty that if he still wants to get the kitty he may want to friend zone you- but it is definitely a zone with a benefits package.  This conversation took its course and after my joking and cunning two sense, I just came clean out- maybe because I've been having a sort of emotional ventilation recently, and just belted out a text novel about what I want romantically.  Yes, everyone spurts about what they want in a relationship, situationship, or partner, but mine wasn't exactly that.  I shared what I would like to do when I feel right with a woman.  I guess I'm what you may call ol' school, a hopeless romantic, or maybe just simply a caring gentleman.  All I know is, I started texting and one sentence became an epic about love.  The things I'd adore to do for my lady when I have that sincere connection- and I don't think I've experienced that since quite some time before my last post in kenncole.  Truly, I may have sabotaged my own happiness or just have not had the correct compatibility in females but be that as it may- it has not happened... YET.



Here I will share how I will treat that female who gives me that Feeling.  You know the one when you first meet a love interest and chemistry is so amazing- then you wake up 8 months later and it's still there...






"Well I understand that but there's gotta be people out there like me. Whenever I get a girlfriend... I'm sending her letters. In the mail. I'm sending flowers to her job. I'm calling her just to tell her I miss her. I'll take her shopping and sit in the same 3 stores for 3 hours and let her try the same dress on five times instead of ordering it online and returning to sender when she didn't like the fit. I'll hold her hand when I say things so I can feel her body language instead of guessing what her heart is saying over Skype. We'll take trips and the only pictures will be the plane tickets we post, because we are sharing an experience not documenting photographs. I know she's out there. I just have to meet her first."

As an afterthought- I'm just curious as to if women still desire this treatment.  I know I'm not in touch with everything.  So just let me know if I'm barking up the wrong tree in my desires.

Sidenote:  I am over here jamming to D'Angelo's latest album Black Messiah in my SMS Headphones!  THIS is Music!!!